My opinion.....but if I am standing up for what I know is right & someone forces me to tough love them with their behavior, I really don't care if a spoiled brat hates me or not whether they are family of not. I just back awsy from them & let them do their thing. If they ever come around & realize what they are doing or have done, GREAT. If not, no big loss whether family of not. I don't have to tolerate bad behavior no matter who the person is