I know that it is tough, maybe boring, or even striving to find that "honeymoon phase." But those feelings will be short lived and life will be full of ups and downs no matter who you are with. If it is just wanting to be whole, then you can find that while being in the relationship, if it is the marriage that had gotten stale, you should try and change it up. Marriage will be like a new iPhone, once you have the iPhone, the phone will start to become normal. As you upgrade to a new phone, the excitement is there, but then it will become normal. Happiness starts with us, and that is only can be found within ourselves. Hopefully that helped.