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My situation wasn't with a narcissist but someone with thinking that was not normal & he didn't want a divorce because it would make him "LOOK" like a failure. I finally had a path out & moved 2100 miles away. Found out years (11) later that he expected I would be back in 2 years & I never came back & got my divorce in the state I live in & he never responded to my lawyer.
You are right, you will take action when YOU HAVE HAD ENOUGH. No one else can make that point happen. Seriously, the peace & better state of mind that comes from getting out you never understand till you are there. I never looked back or thought of him except when legal issues arise but it is never in a positive light.
When you are ready you will take the action you need & not cave when a situation arises
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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