was allegedly molested by another child (who's about 3 yrs older than mine) several months ago, and I just recently was told about this.

My child is a fun, spunky 3 yr old who doesnt seem to be affected, and when I asked my child about this 'event' - their reply was "No." (no hesitation, no trying to cover anything up, no sign of being uncomfortable...nothing). She goes about her day and plays just as she always does....always smiling and laughing. I have no reason to believe there is a problem. The alleged perp (for lack of a better term) on the other hand has all kinds of issues going on, so I"m really struggling to believe this child when she admitted it to her mom. The mom confronted and asked if she'd done anyting to my child and her reply was that she had. This child rarely tells the truth about anything and i can't help but feel that by the way the isssue was approached, maybe the mom planted the thought into the child's head. She likes to make her mom miserable and does whatever she can to rebel and hurt her mom -- so i just am really struggling.

Has anyone here gone thru anything similar?? I have so many questions and thoughts going thru my head that i can't even begin to sort thru them.