Thanks kiya and sujnew,

the husband of 15 years, asked me for a divorce 3 months before i turn 40....so lets review....

Im getting older, the man who "loved" me. Turns out that was a %#@&#! lie.......and does not trust me with our finances. even though ive made great strides.....

YUP! life is goood.......

miss you guys.....back to my boring pitiful life i suppose

Colleen