As some of you might know, my T and I are going through a rough time. He has cancer that has spread, so he can't be completely cured.



We have discussed what happens at the end some. But I'm really scared of it happening really sudden (I know of some people on here who have been unfortunate enough to experience a T suddenly being gone). Therefore, I'd like him to write a few words, to both have a sort of transitional object, but also have his own wording for things. When we discussed it, I told him to "write some nice things" which he doesn't think is therapeutic. I get that, and I'd like to get some insight into what might be good things to put. I told him to imagine we're at the end and not talking anymore after, but he said he's not there yet (which I understand, though I might push him more on that). I wonder what other people might want their T to put into such a letter. I don't want to read it before he is actually gone, it should be something that commemorates our time together after a sudden issue.