Welcome @Gottix! I think @CANDC's response was spot on. I'll just mention that I went through a lot of what you're going through. It was before there were cell phones and even Internet.

I think if you spend your free time pursuing things you're passionate about, you'll meet like-minded people; some of these will be dateable women. I've never been to a Meetup, but I think if I were you, I'd find a few that involved nature, such as mushroom foraging, visiting an apiary, raptor sighting. But that's just me.

There's this saying that you should just be yourself; everyone else is taken.

Good luck!