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Old Feb 12, 2024, 07:23 PM
RDMercer RDMercer is offline
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Maybe it feels like she's not sure because she's being cautious sometimes too.

Honestly, if this was me, I'd try. I'd reach out pretty consistently. I'd ask for time together; walk, coffee, gaming,whatever. And you CAN do both; you can be vulnerable and available, but cautious.

After connecting a few times, just saying, "I really enjoy my time with you. I'm sure you know I find you attractive. I'm just being cautious about letting those feelings grow because I'm not sure where you're hoping for this to go."

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