I greatly appreciate everyone's advice. Practically everything you all have said MAKES COMPLETE SENSE. I agree with that maybe there is something more deep than sex that is causing our issues. And, yes... he said that the affairs were "only" about sex. I have mentioned to him many times that maybe he needs therapy for (what I think is) his addiction. Anyway, I am going to attempt to find a therapist. THANK YOU ALL SO VERY MUCH!!!!