My first time here.

A couple weeks ago, I went on a few dates with someone I met online.

Our first date I thought went well. The conversation went smoothly and there was chemistry. He said he was glad I received his message, since he wasn’t sure it would go through since he took his profile off line a couple weeks prior. We shared some things enough to know that we both are sensitive people that care about feelings and outcomes. The only thing I could see we didn’t have in common was golfing, but kept in the back of my mind that we possibly could discover other activities together.

That same day, he called me a couple times to say hello and that he wanted to see me again. He even called again that evening.

We made plans and met for a second date. The date “I thought” was going well, except he cut the date short, apologizing, and saying he was tired. He said we could see each other again though. We hugged and kissed goodbye, and it felt real.

Shortly after I got home, he called to make sure I got home safely, which I thought was considerate.

The next day I texted him, and he texted back to tell me he was golfing, and that he’d try and call me later. I then went online and noticed his profile was active again.

Never heard from him that day, the rest of that week, and in the beginning of the next week.

I’m beside myself in confusion. I can’t see what I did wrong, constantly questioning myself. I wanted to call him, but was afraid he wouldn’t answer the phone. It’s quite obvious he wants to end communication with me, but I don’t know why. It hurts.

Any thoughts are appreciated.

Thanks,
JeLynne01