I appreciate everyone’s thoughts. I put some more thought into this, and a number of years ago I was guilty of ghosting as well.

It was a good two years into this controlling relationship, and I found out that not only had he gone to my my mom, but others in the neighborhood, and talking to them about our problems. I had discussions about my disapproval, but it kept happening.

I didn’t trust him, nor did I want to be around him anymore, so I cut all contact with him. I suppose I’m guilty of ghosting as well. It’s not a nice thing to do under any circumstances, so I would never do it again. That’s for sure.