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I am not clear how old you are. You have been with your husband since 16. You have been committed to him since 2009. Does it mean that you are going to turn 31 this year or not? How old you are is relevant to the issue of whether to have children with your H.

It is also now clear whether, upon your finding out that you have an incredibly high sex drive, you also found that sex with your husband is satisfying to you. This is also an important and relevant inquiry.

Yes 31 this year and I feel a lot of pressure in the children regard due to my age.

Yes, sex is satisfying with him. Though I definitely feel unwilling/shy to ask for certain things sexually with him, while in my imagination I wouldn't with someone else?! Mostly I think because it's not in his character so I feel like asking would be uncomfortable for both of us.