My T.. had always told me that he was responsible for his own feelings.. and while "in session" should be "in balance"... for the therauptic session to be as it should..

I know we are all human... and I feel for your T's pain...

I feel much... much more for you... such a very difficult position that you were placed in.. and you handled it so very well...

My MD... once came in to treat me.. upset.. like your T.. and told me the "whole story"... of what had just happened... and I withdrew.. because.. I was there for help... not to comfort her.. because another patient.. had just been there are screamed at her.. I am a kind person.. but... it just wasn't... comfortable for me...I often thought about that day.... and I wish.. that she had just cancelled her afternoon appts.. and gotten herself together... it would have cause me less damage.. the things she told me.. made me doubt her competance as a MD..

So.. I may be in the minority here... knowing you care deeply about your T... I just wish she had handled things differently... as it had to be difficult for you... and difficult for you now...I wish... she had..cancelled... though hard.. in the middle.. perhaps better..

my thoughts are with you...