I am schizoid and understand that living seperately probably makes the relationship soo much better and work better. I would hate to live with someone to be honest. BUT, that said...with children, I think it may be different. I feel strongly that people should only have children if they are willing to go the extra mile to be a great parent. Personally, for this reason and many others, I don't think I will have children. HOWEVER, if I did get pregnant and have a child, I am confident I would be able to handle it well. I think that actually has something to do with my schizoid PD. The fact that i like my own company and own ways would make me be a good parent? idk, probably didn't make much sense there but good luck!! xx
I also think that the main question is do you WANT children? And this is going to sound mean but do you really love your girlfriend? As in look forward to seeing her etc? because personally, I never have in a relationship even with great people (like your gf) who accepts me for who i am.