Dalila, Sounds to me that you were a comforting presence in your T's "meltdown"...I know T's are supposed to be there for us and us not there for them, and I don't think you had to be there for her as such, but it does mirror life sometimes and this experience will one day come in handy in outside life don't you feel?...to have to feel that anxiety and uncertainty in T will feel like a doddle if you say were confronted with this senario with a work collegue or friend? OH well thats just my thoughts on it.