I'm sorry you're still going through this. I stopped looking L up on fb because she locked down her account. Like she got rid of everything view publicly. It hurt, however, she sent me a bunch of pictures that were on there and will pretty much show me any picture I ask for. T, on the other hand, stopped posting pictures except for a picture of herself that made her look like a *****. It's really off-putting.

I still look from time to time, just to see if they have new pictures. Sadly, several months ago, I even looked up ex-T. I don't look at family members even though I know their names. I believe it's up to the T or family members to lock down their profiles especially since the person is a therapist. I respect L's decision even though it hurt. I don't want someone else who might harm her getting information about her. I'm just thankful that I can have the pictures I already saw and can request other pictures as well.