While every situation is different, I used to be living with my family, and things were pretty bad. My little sister physically abused me regularly growing up and my dad was a disciplinarian. Also, losing fights to my sister and being teased for being a sissy, loser and wuss ****ed up my mind and I had no self confidence by the time I was in late teens. I lived at home until I was 21 with little job prospect. I had an uncle in a different city who took me under his wing and I moved to that city and i slowly built my life. I still have anxiety attacks and PTSD but I have left the cycle. Do you have a family member or a relative who can help you build your life?