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Originally Posted by eskielover
Hate to disagree but telling someone they are wrong for clearly having religious based moral values they strive to keep is unrealistic....is just wrong. Some of us do keep those values in spite of societies invalidation of them.
I agree with @RDMercer in that the feelings are normal but holding onto restraint is admirable & an important trait needed to hold onto those values which should NOT be discredited by anyone just because they are faith/religious based |
Please reread my post: "I am still not clear why you feel that you disgraced your body, but
maybe this is part of the framework of your broader religious beliefs. Even if this is so, promising something unrealistic to yourself will backfire, and possibly very soon."
I made enough of a nod to the validity of OP's religious beliefs and commented that
even within their framework, OP is setting herself up for failure and disappointment by making unrealistic and perfectionist promises to herself.