((Christina))

I agree with 50's Guy. Flirts just want to make everyone feel better.
Cads are creeps. Dishonest intentions.

I have guy friends who are flirts. They don't have bad intentions.

You can have a wonderful relationship or marriage, whatever you want with a flirtatious guy or gal, and because one flirts, it doesn't mean you aren't exclusive to them - visa-versa.

A flirt may not be a good match for a possessive person, a controller, or a very insecure or jealous person.

Just a few thoughts so we aren't hating on flirts ... after all, who would make our day when our self-talk doesn't make it over the net?

A cad now - that's a person cut from a different cloth.
They are users and their words are cheep.
Actions speak louder than words... and a cad will usually get found out.
Selfish is as selfish does.

Glad you gave up on him, and remember, never let him see he got to you - he doesn't deserve to think he is that special!

peace and love,
night