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Originally Posted by RDMercer
OK.....
Hear me out on something.
These periods I go through of longing, wishing, pining, and anguish.....
That's really.... Familiar.
That's what I went through while she was here.
Is this part of limerance still hanging on? Is this part of my conditioning to feel anguish and questioning and unfulfillment?
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It may be part of a compulsion to long for love from the emotionally unavailable. It may stem from adverse childhood experiences.
I thought I had limerence, but this article has me doubting because I did care about the well being of the limerent object. It was an obsession with emotionally unavailable people who gave me some encouragement, intermittent reinforcement.