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Originally Posted by CANDC
@insideoutsider I am reading your responses. I wondered what you wanted to change the title to and I can change it for you if you still wish to change it as you mentioned from "Folder icon ASPD - Antisocial - Sociopath - Psychopath"
I have been alone much in life and probably depended like Thomas on relationships for socializing. That did not work because romance and socializing are like two different animals.
I find that by volunteering I am developing more empathy for others but sometimes I think of what I would do in their situation but that does not always work.
I think having a purpose in life can help whether that is expressing a talent or pursuing self improvement or a mindful path.
Thanks for including me in the chat.
CANDC
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Hey CANDC,
I'll tell you what I do in those situations - squirm like a mouse under the gaze of cats and hawks or get the hell out of there. The schoolyard taught me that humans are basically monstrous when they detect weakness - and the lack of empathy leads to potentially awkward responses. Basically I read my audience and play the most appropriate card. You can pick an ASPD by taking careful note how hard they are studying you. They might even forget to blink. It's so they can fake their responses, knowing that only socially expected responses are acceptable. Being myself in public is never an option. I know my perspective is generally beyond the pale, so I fake it most of the time or just don't do social. Large social situations are a nightmare. No thanks. Hope this helps with understanding. Happy to chat.
Thomas73