You truly have your "stuff" together. It's pretty obvious that you've picked up the pieces and just kept going despite her. All those responsibilities the two of you should have shared, she left you to deal with by yourself- which you've done very well. It's mind numbing that she seems to want what she wants, when she wants it, given what she has and hasn't done.

You went through a lot with her, it's no great wonder that it's tough being forced to rehash it.

((((RDM))))