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Old Mar 09, 2024, 12:29 AM
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I know, I had to learn and accept that the court sees a lot of cases. Mine isn't unique. Ultimately what she's looking for and expecting to get from me just doesn't exist. It's not possible. We are now a single income home. I am now a single parent. No, I can't do that on a 40% pay cut. That's what she is seeking; that she not pay child support, and that 35% of my after-tax pay goes to her.
The judge will see this. It doesn’t matter what your wife thinks she should get. You have soul custody, your wife should be embarrassed about that.

You don’t like confrontation so this process is uncomfortable for you. Your wife has issues you cannot fix. That’s not your fault.
Thanks for this!
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