Dear T,

Thanks for lending me that book. I think what I read (beyond the chapter you suggested) helped me have a good dinner with H tonight. I feel we had some important discussion. I was focusing (as best I could) on listening to him and making him feel heard instead of talking about my stuff. I think I did OK? And it's also like I understood more once he talked about some things. So, hoping this is one step in improving our marital relationship (I was starting to get pretty depressed by some of the quizzes in the book).

Love,
LT