lorde, no! no orgies or nudity involved, as far as i know. if that was a factor in the community, i'm not sure i'd want to be a part of it; public nudity is so not my thing.

it's a small ethnic/religious community. i belong via ethnicity - tho' i'm an atheist - but wasn't raised knowing that, whereas T was. in many respects, it is as much my community as it is T's, but he has said i cannot participate in any way while in therapy with him. part of my distress is that he's only now disclosed that boundary despite knowing my ethnicity all along.