I'm sorry it is so hard for you to find a therapist. It should not be that hard! I recommend getting a referral from your doctor and having the doctor's office make a call on your behalf. Or name drop when you make the call to the therapist. Leave a message, "My doctor, Dr. Jones, has given me your name, blah, blah, blah..." Or, "My Employee Assistance Program has given me your name..." Then the therapist (or your EAP) knows that if he/she doesn't respond, you will tell your doc (or EAP), and he/she will be taken off the referral list, which could result in a source of clients drying up.

I am so sorry you are not getting the help that you need.