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Originally Posted by Tart Cherry Jam
Then I am not clear why you are berating yourself. And my next questions, again if you do not mind:
- did you learn about his being sober for 12 years,
- his going to meetings sporadically,
- his being out of a 5 year on-and-off relationship with his ex gf, and
- his ex gf's "love of pills"
all during this old-fashioned date?
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Lol my husband told me his entire life on our first date and it wasn’t a long date. We had a quick lunch and then quick walk on the street checking a book store and then sat on the bench a bit. It was cold and I was tired so I ended date early. I later realized that I told him ton of stuff that I tell no one. I am a very private person. The fact that it fell natural was my big green flag. So it’s possible to share a lot. Having said that none was about drugs or anything like that. But sometimes people just click.