I think it’s important to have clear deal breakers and stick to them. They are very subjective. So I’d not worry what other people consider deal breakers. Only what I do.for example, I’d not date anyone who drinks, does or did hard core drugs and smokes pot or ingest weed in any other ways. Nope. Never. Does it mean others shouldn’t? Of course not. It’s MY deal breaker.

I have other very clearly defined deal breakers. I think when you have those, you’d less likely to be in a bad relationship. Figure out what’s absolutely a NO for you and stick to it no matter what.