Sabby is right, trust is one of the most important things in a relationship. It’s easily broken and difficult to get back. I think that I would be concerned in the future if he’s telling you something because it’s what he thinks you want to hear, or because it’s the truth. In my world, there is no such thing as a “little lie”.
The one up side is that he came clean before you found out other ways. I would definitely talk to him and let him know how much honesty means to you and how hurt you were by his deception. Only you know if the relationship is worth it.
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