i don't know how i'm supposed to talk to you tomorrow. and i'm not sure which i'm more upset about: the choice you're forcing on me which will harm me either way, or the fact you had this boundary and only now disclosed it after all these years we've been working together. surely being clear about this kind of situation is Therapy 101? full disclosure? informed consent?

i'm still not even sure you *can* ban me from an entire community.

your arrogance and lack of compassion about this is really pissing me off.