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Mar 13, 2024, 11:39 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,086
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Totally agree with @Rive. You need to go find a place for yourself that you can afford on your own. I learned years ago to never live for what might be or what we wish for. Live for what is at the time. If things work out, great.....but usually when relationships have gotten to this point there is usually a big reason they have. Sounds like both of you have grown to be incompatible with each other & love is irrelivant at that point because the underlying issues are bigger than any love that might exist.
You say that he makes your life better but I am thinking he sure must not feel the same. I left my now ex several times before I finally had all I could take of the relationship. I am sure he didn't feel that way. I should have called it quits long before I finally did because those years were miserable with all the fighting & arguments.
Take care of yourself & if anything does work out, your independence may be respected more.
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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