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Mar 15, 2024, 09:43 AM
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Member Since: Oct 2004
Location: Kentucky, USA
Posts: 25,081
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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
I wonder if the drive to engage in drama and conflict is to avoid boredom.
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In my case it was because I refused to tolerate the stupidity I was living around & fought against it. This was both in my parents house growing up & in my marriage. Had nothing to do with boredom. My parents were fine with themselves, I wasn't. My now ex was fine living his life making the bad choices....I wasn't. When trapped in a bad place& you can't "flight", you "fight" & that was my survival mode. It was so awesome when I was finally no longer around any of them & felt peace for the first time in my life
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Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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