my wife and I had our last session with our therapist....she gave us a referral to another therapist.....we were terminated
It was a shock, but then again I guess it wasn't....she made it clear she could not help us anymore and my transference had become
a problem...she mentioned something I said in session probably a year ago or so, and after conferring with another therapist determoned that she could no longer continue to be our therapist
some sexual comment I made I suppose
most of what she said was professional and she was very clear in letting us know that she would not hesitate to help us in anyway make the transition to a new therapist
I just sat on the couch and tried to keep my emotions in check....I just wanted to slap her glasses off her face and kick her right off the stool.....I feel bad for my wife..
im pretty much done with therapy.........im going to the pdoc on Monday and plan on telling him where to stick his prescription pad
Im not happy about any of this....and looking back my sarchasm and
flippant use of sexual phrases is probably the culprit in the termination
hell ive lost the only friend I could talk to all because of my attitude and adolescent behavior....I wasnt ready for this....
oh well , life goes on....anybody got a tissue
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