thanks so much for the advice and your both right I have told him how hurt I was he never even wanted to tell me but it kept eating at him so when I finally was accepted by it I realize from what both u said was right he wants trust and didn't want this lie keep eating him and affect our relationship! after reading I came to the fact that I forgive him and I want to stay with him forever and ever! and we both see eye to eye and we never even fought once so what we have is strong . as well I might be young but I know I'm very mature for a 17 year old. I just see this a phase we both had to go through to only become strong as a whole! thanks so so much for the advice!