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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Something I just read or heard said shame is what is felt when you hold yourself to some idealistic standard. This thought has helped me a lot put things in perspective and feel less shame.
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Good point. Thank you for sharing.
I sometimes feel that the standards come afterwards because one feels so much shame one wants to make up for it by holding impossible standards.
Vicious cycle though, isn't it?