hello everyone, this is the boy who he's talking about. your right, we're young. i'm only 16 but even through that we still have a strong relationship and a strong bond and understanding of what we both want. also, with the trust issue. i just wanted to be completely honest with him. i know i coulda went our whole lives without telling him but i didnt want that, i wanted him to know the truth. it was really hard simply bc i knew how it was going to hurt him and i really didnt want to see that but i wanted to be honest so i told him. i gotta amit, it was extremely hard and emotional but in the end it brought us even closer. overall, it was hard but im glad i told him.
thanx for all the help everyone and best of luck to you all.