It's hearsay until she has someone subpoenaed.

My uncle was with a woman who was removed from their home by family services for beating their children.

He got sole custody.

There were STILL people in our family that thought it wasn't right OR GODLY for children to be away from their mother, and so they supported her.

Nothing came from it.

But I think a lack of vigilance is a bad idea.

In construction you do field level risk assessments, based on likelihood and severity of consequences.

Something unlikely with permanent consequences is a major risk.

My wife has posed as me on social media and contacted family.

I think this is a major risk.