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Legendary Wise Elder
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Location: Kentucky, USA
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Mar 21, 2024 at 08:49 PM
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Originally Posted by Blah nlah
Perhaps I was blind. I didn’t see the signs that this will happen. According to my mom and sister, I am dealing with it quite well. They were afraid I’d get depressed. I was sad for a while, cried a bit, and thought about what happened. The guy said he has to be obsessed with his work now. I guess I agree. I’m going out today, to find an internship. I hope I get it.
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Don't think it is so much about being blind to the signs, there are just safe ways of starting off getting to know people & keeping yourself in logical control & not thinking something is a friendship before it is ever a real relationship of any kind beyond an acquaintance.....or making sure something never gets past the acquaintance stage if you see any real incompatibilities.
Not every acquaintance we make is meant to be a friendship. Being selective is actually a healthy trait.
Glad to hear you are not taking it hard & getting on with your life
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