I am now having another problem. We were talking today because he said that it is scarying him how he feels. He doesn't know why he has been so insecure and posessive. He said that he thinks he has a problem. I confronted him about another issue we were having. He was always telling me that if I leave him he would kill me. If he can't have me no one will have me. He said that he would stalk me. He said that if I broke up with him that it wouldn;t be an easy break up. He would do anything in his power to get me back. He said that if someone else got with me he would hurt that guy. I told him how I felt about him saying that stuff and he continued to say those things. When I asked him if he was just playing around and that is nothing to play around with he said that he was not playing around. That he was serious and that he really feels that way and he hoped that he is not scarying me because he doesn't want to scare me. He said that he is acutly insane. He said that he has issues he needs to deal with. He also told me that if he killed me he would kill himself. He said that he doesn't know what he might do if I broke up with him. He said that that scares him. He said that he would never hurt me. I am so scared. I don't know what to do. I don't want to be with him anymore no matter how bad I love him or feel with him. I told him that tht is not love and the way he feels towards me is not normal. I told him that he needs professional help. I told him that I am scared. I cannot live in fear. I am at the point now where I don't want to break up with him, but I know that it is the best move to make, but at the same time I am afriad of him. It is like I feel stuck. What should I do. I know that I deserve so much better and he is not the one for me. What should I do? What is wrong with him? Do you think he will really do what I just told you? Help me please? This is tearing me apart. How can someone I love and he loves me feel this way towards me? What am I doing to make him feel thta he has to be this way. Or he has to feel this way?
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