Finally after 2+ months, I got a brush through my hair. I thought I was going to have to cut it again. I used a cream for matted hair. Smells horrible but works. Now if we can get Victoria to use it on her hair. Our weeks are spent trying to convince her to work on school stuff. Weekends are playing catch up for work she didn't do for the week. I'm still not getting out of bed a lot. I was on the phone when my sister's dog slipped and he had to be put down. Now my dog is the only one left out of the 4. She's 14, it happened really fast. Really bothers me because I spend all day with my dog. H is not taking Victoria's situation well wants to blame her girlfriend. But I think it's just Victoria. And doesn't like that it's not monogamous. Within 8 months she's been through so much. And she's not looking at her future. I wish I had someone I could talk to honestly but I have no t.