Hi U! I only want to be able to delete things and not have the "this message has been deleted by..." stuff left over. I'm ok for now with getting a note if one's coming but I want the option of cleaning the thing out in totality if I want to. I have a lot of old notes from a friend who isn't here anymore and sadly would like them removed. Without the "been deleted by...' stuff. Maybe it's something only an administrator or moderator can do?