Well, what other options do you have, knowing she is not ready to be romantically involved?

I think you already know what to do as you are already predicting the answers you will get on here.

There can't be any magical solutions if you (both) want a healthy relationship. She has gone through a lot. She knows that she needs to work on herself and is aware enough that jumping into a relationship is not the healthy choice. She may be ready, she may not. There are no guarantees or certainties in life.

So, again, what other options do you have?

You need to be realistic and move accordingly.