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TishaBuv
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Default Mar 25, 2024 at 10:05 AM
 
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Originally Posted by DeeeSchmeee68 View Post
Estrangement from my child is exceptionally difficult for me as I'm adopted. I suffer abandonment issues and my adopted family was awful.

I tried so hard to be a different type of mother and ended up with loose boundaries and passive parenting.

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I think my parenting style may have been too passive, too. My mother was very controlling and mean, so I went out of my way to treat my kids really kindly.

But, let’s not put too much blame onto ourselves. There may be other factors here, like the role society played.

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Thanks for this!
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