It is really hard for people who don't struggle to understand how every aspect of life is imparied and unrooted by ADHD. I personally have just learned to not care what others say, own my ADHD and learn all I can to better myself and overcome the obstacles it brings. Times are changing however-- I do think there is a shift (for better or for worse) to the awareness of ADHD. Those who know, know the struggle. Those who don't need to educate themselves.