Honey you know you are gorgeous! From your posts i was picturing a little old lady who looked like me! You know Grandmama on the original Addams Family tv show?
I used to be cute like you. Dont waste these years like i did, on men who dont deserve you. You cant fix them. And think - its kind of an insult to them that you feel they need feed fixing, isnt it? You wouldnt want anybody saying that to you, would you? Took me a long time to realize that. I dont know who died and made me Mother Theresa (this was when she was still alive). It is your duty to use your gifts honorably.