Honestly how I think about it is when I am sexually attracted to a guy it's intense and I don't really know how to act. I find that I analyse the situation excessively and that I don't approach a guy I like for fear that the will question my intentions. Id rather stay away in this sense I feel like I've created an intense feeling of push and pull where I want to approach the person but I over analyse the situation. In saying all of that I know I am not ready to date and I don't think men view me as ready to date. I however still mention it because the feelings towards this person I've felt for a long time now.