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eskielover · Apr 02, 2024 at 09:11 AM

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After a few tries in getting you unstuck

Sticking my nose in here....from my own personal experience, NO ONE can get anyone else unstuck. That is a "fixer" mentality. A person has to go through & process what has happened in their own life & figure out how they will move on. Sometimes that takes more time than others & venting in posts here helps that processing more than any of the replies do. That is exactly why, no one actually understands & the responses are not accurate because no one can actually understand what a person is going through or how they are going through it. We are not STUCK.....we are just in the process of processing what happened & how we will handle it.

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Life does not require that people understand you. If you want to work collaboratively and as part of a team and perhaps progress in your career as a result of that, it actually requires that you put your nose to the grindstone and do the work, without blaming others for not understanding YOU.

From reading his post , this isn't about not doing the work....it is about correcting those doing the work with him so he doesn't end up having to do their work over on top of his. Big difference.

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There are a couple of people who will always explain away any difficulty you have with others by saying the other person is

There are often people in our lives that do CAUSE the difficulties in our lives (unless we get rid of them from our lives before it gets to that point). If not it is at that point we have to figure out how to deal with them & figure out a new direction in our life. Neither of those things can be done in a blink of an eye & take time to figure out & like correcting the direction of a boat, it takes numerous adapting with the rudder to get out of a messy situation. It doesn't just magically happen with one thought or someone else telling you what to do.