I learned that Radical Acceptance was not resisting something while I still work on a better solution.
Worked well with a pain specialist situation I was in. Med situation wasn't going to change so I accepted rather than continued fighting the situation while I figured out the solution that I was going to implement. I never went back after that point.
Yep, I accepted my husband was a jerk & was going to destroy me financially while I worked on my solution to leave.
The acceptance mindset doesn't mean that we can't be working on a better solution in the meantime & focus our effort on solution rather than resistance
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Leo's favorite place was in the passenger seat of my truck. We went everywhere together like this.
Leo my soulmate will live in my heart FOREVER Nov 1, 2002 - Dec 16, 2018
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