It IS kintsugi, isnt it?! Im mildly surprised your "cast of characters" so to speak don't realize that it is keeping you together with them also. Like, let HER go, but dont let US go for the same level of offenses. That is SOOOO my family! Do as we say, not as we do.
This made me realize, that when i finally did leave my t, i didnt see the crack, i saw the gold.