H wants to move cross country again. This time to Cal. I understand wanting to be around friends but it just doesn't seem like a good idea. I know he wants a house instead of an apartment, the weather is better but it's far from family. Not that we're close now but we're a day trip away vs all the way across the country. It doesn't help our neighbors scream and throw their trash everywhere. And it's not friendly to me. Victoria wants to go, h wants to go so we'll see.